It’s Masturbation Monday in my world – the world of erotica. I figured it would be appropriate to write about something that you don’t hear talked about often but no doubt happens…..maybe often, too.
Female masturbation. OMGosh, females masturbate? Yes. Yes, we do.
Women might not talk about it like men do but I will; and we do. Masturbation is perfectly natural, safe, beneficial to our health in many areas, and allows us to explore different things that we like and ways we enjoy being touched. It gives us a better sense of our own bodies. There is nothing to be embarrassed or feel guilty about when it comes to self-pleasure.
Masturbation is perfectly natural, safe, beneficial to our health in many areas, and allows us to explore different things that we like and ways we enjoy being touched. It gives us a better sense of our own bodies. There is nothing to be embarrassed or feel guilty about when it comes to self-pleasure.
Humans and animals, of both sexes, masturbate and have been for as long as we’ve been around. The ability to bring ourselves to a climax without having to depend on someone else to do it for us is as convenient as it gets. Especially today, where most families consist of two working adults separated many nights a week.
Some families with children have parents that work opposite shifts to alleviate child care expenses. Military families are often split up for months at a time. There are single parents don’t make time for themselves to have a significant other. Then you have women that have husbands who are home all evening and night that simply masturbate because it feels good……because it does feel good.
Doctors used to treat women with hysteria, which was attributed to sexual frustration, by getting them off with clitoral stimulation. They first used their hands until the practice was cause for concern within the medical community and the vibrator was invented to do it for them.
When we orgasm there are many different stress relievers taking place in our bodies. Neurochemicals that affect different areas of our brain surge through it giving us a feeling of ecstasy and elation. Masturbating to climax can help with menstrual cramps, migraines, and anxiety.
We can have a couple different kinds of orgasms. Clitoral orgasm by stimulating our clits and vaginal orgasm through vaginal penetration and stimulation of the G-spot. You might even be brought to an orgasm by stimulation of both areas combined.
There are several different ways for a woman to masturbate. It really is a personal preference as well as what works best. What works for one may not work as well for another.
Some women may choose to masturbate with their fingers by rubbing their clit, fingering themselves and brushing against their G-spot, or a combination of both. Some women massage one of their breast or squeeze their nipple with one hand while pleasuring herself down below with the other.
Vibrators and dildos can help bring you to a climax quickly and some women only masturbate using one of them. Personally, I love having an orgasm from using a vibrator on my clit. It’s electrifying, to say the least.
You can reach a clitoral orgasm by grinding yourself against something too. Some may rub themselves against something soft like a pillow while others may like grinding against something harder like a the edge of a table.
Some women masturbate using water too. They allow the water from the faucet in the tub to run down onto their clits or if they have a tub with jets in it they angle themselves above the jet and let the rushing stream of water spray them into an orgasm. Another thing that is nice to have is a removable shower head with adjustable speeds. You can take the shower head down and change the speed of the stream of water to your desired strength and hold it against your clit. The pressure of the water spraying against you feels amazing and is sure to bring on the big O; just be careful and make sure you don’t slip and fall.
There are tons of different ways to get yourself off; the possibilities are endless and the choice is yours to make. Masturbation is about pleasing yourself and that is what you have to do, find what works to please you and go fu*k yourselves!
I originally wrote this for livingloving.com.