Blowjobs: Not Just for Men

Before I start, we need to tackle something that will help you be all you can be when you’re going down on him. Blowjobs are NOT JUST FOR HIM!

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If that is what you think, you need to get that thought out of your head –no pun intended. They can be extremely arousing for us girls as well; and make for a more lubricated and enjoyable sexual experience. He will be even more stimulated knowing that you are turned on by it too.I love being on the giving end of oral sex almost as much as I like being on the receiving end. I don’t just say that because I’m one of those naughty erotica authors. I’ve been giving blowjobs longer than I’ve been writing erotica and I enjoyed it then just as much as I do now.

With that out of the way, let’s get down to business and talk about the four things you need to know when you’re going down on him.

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  1. Make eye contact with him.

Guys love blowjob eyes. Making eye contact while his dick is in your mouth enhances the connection between the two of you. That doesn’t mean you have to stare at him the whole time; that would be creepy. Look up at him from time to time with a sultry look in your eye. Let him see that you are enjoying the pleasure you are giving him.

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  1. Use more than your mouth on more than his shaft.

Use your hand or both of your hands as well as your mouth. Wrap one hand around the base of his shaft and stroke him while you are sucking on the head of his dick. You can drag your fingers of your free hand gently along his sac or massage his balls; change it up – there’s no right or wrong way of doing it. He will respond to your touch like never before.

And while we’re talking about his balls and sac, he will enjoy you licking and sucking on them also. They are part of his package and need lovin’ just as much as the rest of him.

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  1. Make joyful noise.

You can always tell how much your partner is being pleased during any sexual act by the noises that he makes. When he is moaning, sighing, and gasping for his breath you know that you’re doing it right; it’s non-verbal communication between the two of you. The better things feel, the more vocal we become.

It’s such a turn on for me to hear my man moan when I’m giving him head and it makes for an even better time for me.

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As I stated before, your man will enjoy and appreciate his blowjob more when he knows you are just as into it. How will he know? Yep, the same way you know that he’s loving what you are doing……by the noises that you make. If you are truly into it those noises should come natural. I’m not telling you to fake anything. Some girls hold back and try to silence themselves. Don’t; let loose. Not only will he love hearing you moan, knowing that you like what you’re doing to him, he will feel the vibrations of your moans against his dick, which will intensify his pleasure.

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  1. Suck it up and swallow.

If you are giving him a blowjob as foreplay and don’t intend to make him cum from the blowjob, this isn’t as important as the above mentioned things. However, if it’s only a blowjob that you’re giving him this is crucial. It’s a known fact that guys love when a girl swallows their cum.

It’s not going to hurt you. Your stomach acid will kill any bacteria that may be in it. You can’t get pregnant from swallowing it. In fact, there are many health benefits from swallowing your man’s semen.

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Some girls might think it tastes nasty. Granted it doesn’t taste like chocolate or bonbons but the shots we throw back at the bar or party don’t always taste good either, yet we still manage to down them.

It doesn’t make you a bad girl because you’ve swallowed his cum either. It’s an intimate thing, yes, but you’ve just had his most prized possession in your mouth. That in and of itself is just as intimate. Think of it as the grand finale for you. And if it does make you feel like a bad girl, embrace it and own your naughtiness. He loves a bad girl in the bedroom too but we’ll talk about that another time.

I originally wrote this for livingloving.com.

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